The week ahead: October 19th through October 25th:

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I’d like to talk to you guys today about the opinions of other people. Just like eyeballs (obviously standing in for the other body part people love to compare opinions to)–everybody has them. They aren’t always used or taken care of properly, and very few people have perfect vision. So if we know this, why do we listen to what other people have to say about our lives, especially when it’s negative. When it comes to something so important to us, like our spirituality or the passions we choose to pursue, I think a good portion of it has to do with feelings of insecurity–who doesn’t want others to approve of what they’re doing? Maybe more importantly, it deals with our feelings of worthiness. When we don’t feel worthy to pursue a vocation or passion that’s in our heart, or maybe of a Universal energy that gives freely, we tend to listen to what other people think (if we don’t feel worthy, how can we trust ourselves?), especially if it’s putting us down since it’s reflecting the feelings we have inside. Here’s something you need to understand though–these people giving negative feedback aren’t on your journey, and they don’t know what you need in your life, only YOU do. I find a lot of times when people give negative feedback, you being true about who you are and what you’re about, tends to make them nervous because it pushes them outside of their comfort zones or they may not have come to terms with who they are yet either (things can get ugly when you’re coming from a place of fear). Some may just have a control issue too, or feel they know what’s best for your life, but when you bring up something controversial, like say being a medium, you’re asking people to put aside or question their beliefs and notions that they’ve held onto for their whole life; and some people just aren’t ready for that. Should this stop you from being true to yourself? Hell no, but you should be more cautious with who you share your truth with, especially if you’re vulnerable to the opinions of others while you gain personal strength. It’s taken me my whole life to get to the point (and I’m 32) where I can laugh at others that say being a medium or psychic is impossible and that I must be a fake or I’m just trying to get money, or worse–that the devil speaks through me. These people don’t know me. These people have no idea the things I’ve been through with my abilities, the things I’ve experienced or the people I’ve helped. Most importantly, they don’t know my heart, and if they did, they would never utter those words. I think it hurts the most when family are the ones to say these things to you, but I realized through my own issues with family that I was being given a golden opportunity to build my own support system. Maybe it’s time for you to build your own support system too, and to realize that it’s ok to depend upon your own opinions now, because in truth, this journey of strength is just for you <3

Go ahead and pick a card from the picture above (pick one, two or all three cards–pick what you’re drawn to). The stone you see in the picture is Dravite or Champagne Tourmaline. Champagne Tourmaline is great for grounding, clearing and opening the Root chakra as well as cleansing and aligning the aura. If you feel uncomfortable in a crowd, carry a piece of Champagne Tourmaline with you, as it will put you at ease. Champagne Tourmaline can help with family issues, including the dysfunctional family. It helps to promote practicality and stability. Placing a piece of Champagne Tourmaline in a room can help to emit the collective understanding vibration out to anyone nearby, making for a more peaceful atmosphere once issues are addressed. Issues that have been buried will come to the surface, so be prepared to deal with and resolve these issues. If you’d like to know more about Champagne Tourmaline, please go here. 


If you chose card #1: Your message this week is to improve your diet and your life will also improve. Your card goes on to say that you drew this card because of your request for help with your life’s purpose and in awakening your spiritual gift of clairvoyance. The fairies say that your body’s metabolism is extremely sensitive. They’ve been guiding you to switch to a healthier diet, but you may not have heard or trusted this message. So the fairies now bring you this card to validate that you’re hearing them correctly. As you improve your diet, so do you heal other areas of your life. Additional Meanings: Consult with a nutritionist • Go on a detox cleanse • Stop drinking alcohol or using other drugs • Reduce or eliminate chemicals and processed foods from your diet • Eat a more vegetarian diet • Quit smoking • Stay away from household or industrial chemicals.

If you chose card #2: Your message this week is that as your body becomes stronger, you begin to feel stronger in all ways. Your card goes on to say that the fairies know the importance of physical activity–they play, dance, and run around daily to keep themselves in good physical shape. Moreover, they know that exercise is the secret to lasting energy, health, and happiness. It’s a wonderful stress reducer that can improve every area of your life, including your career, finances, & relationships. You drew this card because your body is crying out for cardiovascular or muscular stimulation. If you ask the fairies, they’ll help you find the time and motivation to exercise in fun ways. Additional Meanings: Do something physical today • Take a cue from the fairies and take dance lessons • Exercise outdoors in nature to benefit from the fresh air and sunshine (as well as increasing your connection to the fairies!) • Do yoga, tai chi, or other Eastern exercise techniques • Exercise with your children or other loved ones • Join a sports team to meet new friends • Say positive affirmations to, and about, your body.

If you chose card #3: Your message this week is that an upcoming trip proves to be life changing in positive ways. Your card goes on to say that this card shows you’ll soon be traveling to an important destination where you’ll learn and grow through new experiences and discoveries. Perhaps you’ll visit a spiritual power place, such as Machu Picchu or Stonehenge; or you may go to a location where you’ll meet a significant person–or even find your new place of residence. Be open to your heart’s inner stirrings about travel, and ask the fairies to help you with the finances and details. Most of all, enjoy yourself on your journeys! Additional Meanings: You’ll be traveling in your new career • Your life purpose involves taking people on tours or holidays • Go camping or hiking • Revive your relationship with a loved one with a vacation • Take a retreat to renew your soul and spirit • Push yourself out of your comfort zone.

My hope for you this week is that you begin to build your own support system. If you need a place to start, please join me on my Facebook page and post something empowering or encouraging that’s near and dear to your heart. I’m blessed to have the most wonderful, beautiful souls (my lovelies!) that follow me on there, and are possibly on the same journey of discovery and understanding that you’re on too. If Facebook isn’t your thing, go through a meetup online, or go to your local library and see what groups are meeting up that match your likes. You can always tell a friend or loved one that you trust too. Please know that there’s always hope, and that when your ready for your tribe, they will start to show up at just the right time. Be good to yourself this week and stand fast in the knowledge that as you begin to live your truth, you’re going to care less about other people’s opinions on something they know nothing about.

This is your week! Make it an amazing one 🙂

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